So, you’ve finally finished that garment you’ve been slaving over for what feels like forever, right? You’ve knitted and purled, probably for days or even months. And now, every time you look at it, all you can see are the tiny hiccups, like that wonky stitch or the hem that you bound off too loose or maybe too tight. Then you discover that the armhole of your sweater is too generous. You really didn’t want it like that.
Hey, step back, look at it from further away (it helps, trust me), and voilà – you’ll see your finished object is not just good, it’s stunning! Who cares if it’s got a few mistakes? That’s called character, and it’s what makes your creation uniquely awesome.
Moreover, let’s ponder for a moment—do we scrutinise the garments we purchase with the same eagle-eyed precision?
Now, unless we’re donning the crème de la crème of haute couture, it’s a given that our purchased garments will have its fair share of imperfections.
And let’s not forget the delightful diversity of our body shapes, which rarely conform to the standard sizes offered by the fashion industry.
So, next time you’re eyeing that armhole on your knitted sweater, remember: In a world of fast- fashion, your creation stands out—and that’s something to celebrate!
We get so caught up in those flawless pics and videos, showing off pretty, manicured hands whipping up fancy, perfect stitches like pros. But let’s be real, that’s not how it usually goes down.
Our pursuit of perfection often becomes an obstacle, hindering our progress in all aspects of life, not solely in the realm of knitting.
Skills are built up gradually, bit by bit. We have to find the balance between wanting to get better and chasing after that impossible perfect.
It feels like we’re always bracing for someone to judge us, like there’s this invisible critic just waiting to call out our slip-ups and circle our errors in red.
Guess what, there’s no such thing as messing up here. Are you knitting a garment with lace yarn on 7mm needles? That’s perfect! Too flowy, too tight? No worries. That’s your signature touch, your unique spin.
Next time, mix things up however you like, if that’s what you’re into.
It’s all about the enjoyment of the hobby, rather than the tension. It’s intended to provide relaxation, not to become an additional source of anxiety.
Just be indulgent with yourself; it’s through this self-compassion that we learn to extend the same kindness to others as well.
Retrobottega Venezia 